A Colombian lower-division game erupted into chaos on Wednesday after Real Alianza Cataquera midfielder Javier Bolívar slapped female referee Vanessa Ceballos moments after being shown a red card.
A viral video posted by Mexican outlet La Jornada shows Ceballos reaching for her pocket to dismiss Bolívar, who suddenly turned and struck her across the face, prompting shock and uproar among players and spectators.
The referee, visibly furious, attempted to retaliate with a kick before being restrained by colleagues and players. One goalkeeper shoved Bolívar away while others shielded Ceballos from further assault. Calls for the midfielder’s suspension quickly mounted online.
In response, Bolívar released a lengthy apology on Instagram, describing his behaviour as “disrespectful and inappropriate.” He insisted he did not intend to hit the referee, claiming he was trying to grab the whistle from her mouth, but admitted the gesture was offensive.
“My action was wrong and contrary to the values of football and respect,” he wrote. “I apologize to her, her family, women, and everyone affected by what happened. I reject any form of violence, especially against women, and I commit to working on my personal and athletic growth.”
The incident has reignited debate about violence against referees in football. Similar assaults have occurred in Brazil, Argentina, Mexico, Europe, and Nigeria, often sparking calls for tougher sanctions and better protection of match officials.
FIFA has repeatedly condemned attacks on referees, warning that such incidents undermine the integrity of the sport. In Colombia, where female referees are increasingly officiating men’s matches, Bolívar’s outburst has renewed concern over respect, discipline, and safety in the game.
